I am a mother of three (ages 14, 12, 3) and have recently
completed my college degree. The last class I had to
take was Sociology. The teacher was absolutely inspiring
with the qualities that I wish every human being had been
graced with. Her last project of the term was called
"Smile.
The class was asked to go out and smile at three people and
document their reactions. I am a very friendly person and
always smile at everyone and say hello anyway, so, I
thought,
this would be a piece of cake, literally.
Soon after we were assigned the project, my husband,
youngest son, and I went out to McDonald's one crisp March
morning. It was just our way of sharing special playtime
with our son. We were standing in line, waiting to be
served,
when all of a sudden everyone around us began to back away,
and then even my husband did. I did not move an inch...an
overwhelming feeling of panic welled up inside of me as I
turned
to see why they had moved. As I turned around I smelled a
horrible "dirty body" smell, and there standing behind me
were two poor homeless men. As I looked down at the short
gentleman, close to me, he was "smiling." His beautiful
sky
blue eyes were full of God's Light as he searched for
acceptance.
He said, "Good day" as he counted the few coins he had
been clutching. The second man fumbled with his hands
as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second man
was mentally deficient and the blue-eyed gentleman was
his salvation. I held my tears as I stood there with them.
The young lady at the counter asked him what they wanted.
He said, "Coffee is all, Miss" because that was all they
could afford. (If they wanted to sit in the restaurant and
warm up, they had to buy something. He just wanted to be
warm.)
Then I really felt it - the compulsion was so great I
almost
reached out and embraced the little man with the blue eyes.
That is when I noticed all eyes in the restaurant were set
on me, judging my every action. I smiled and asked the
young lady behind the counter to give me two more
breakfast meals on a separate tray. I then walked around
the
corner to the table that the men had chosen as a resting
spot.
I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the blue
eyed
gentleman's cold hand.
He looked up at me, with tears in his eyes, and said,
"Thank you."
I leaned over, began to pat his hand and said, "I did not
do
this for you. God is here working through me to give you
hope."
I started to cry as I walked away to join my husband and
son.
When I sat down my husband smiled at me and said, "That
is why God gave you to me, Honey. To give me hope." We
held hands for a moment and at that time we knew that only
because of the Grace that we had been given were we able to
give. We are not churchgoers, but we are believers. That
day
showed me the pure Light of God's sweet love.
I returned to college, on the last evening of class, with
this story
in hand. I turned in "my project" and the instructor read
it.
Then she looked up at me and said, "Can I share this?" I
slowly
nodded as she got the attention of the class. She began to
read
and that is when I knew that we, as human beings and being
part
of God, share this need to heal people and be healed.
In my own way I had touched the people at McDonald's, my
husband, son, instructor, and every soul that shared the
classroom
on the last night I spent as a college student. I
graduated with
one of the biggestlessons I would ever learn:
UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE.
Much love and compassion is sent to each and every person
who may read this and learn how to
LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS - NOT LOVE THINGS AND USE
PEOPLE.
Remember:
Many people will walk in and out of
your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in
your heart.
This is a good story, please read it all the way
through...